人生的十大好种子
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在种子里面,你无法看到大树。
但只要你播下种子,并持续浇水灌溉,种子自然会把自己所需的东西,吸引到身边来,而成长茁壮。
那么,哪些是人生的好种子呢?
① Caring for Self and Othersvs. Harming Life
①照顾自己和他人 vs. 伤害生命
Tong Len (give and take)
施与受
Eat vegetarian
素食
Take care of your body: do yoga, tai chi, etc.
照顾你的身体:练习冥想,太极等。
Help others who are sick
帮助生病的人
Protect small animals, insects
保护小动物,小虫子
Make healthy snacks
制作健康的零食
Smile
微笑
②Generosity vs.Possessiveness
②慷慨 vs. 占有欲
Share your food
分享你的食物
Share your knowledge
分享你的知识
Share your happiness
分享你的快乐
Help others be comfortable
帮助他人自在舒适
Give, give, give to others
给予,给予,给予他人
Respect the property and spaceof others
尊重他人的财产和空间
Expand the definition of “me”,functional and karmic
在功能上和业力上,扩大“我”的定义
Give more than you receive
比起你所得到的,给出去更多
Give protection
给予保护
③RespectingRelationships vs. Hurting others Relationships
③尊重关系 vs. 伤害他人的关系
Choose friends and partnerscarefully, seek those with a strong sense of integrity
谨慎地选择朋友和伴侣,找具有强烈诚信正直感的人
Be dependable in yourrelationships and commitments
在你的关系以及承诺中可靠
Keep your promises
信守承诺
Respect other people’srelationships
尊重他人关系
Befriend lonely or dislikedpeople
与孤单或不受欢迎的人交朋友
Act with the opposite sex as ifyour partner were right by your side
与异性相处互动时,好像你的伴侣就在你身边
Make special efforts to helpcouples stay together
做出特别的努力去帮助伴侣们在一起
Be very happy when you seecouples happy together.
当你看到伴侣们幸福相守时,感到无比快乐
④Integrity& Commitment vs. Dishonesty
④正直 & 承诺 vs. 不诚实
Tell the truth with kindness
以善意的方式说出事实真相
Make commitments you can keep
做你能够信守的承诺
Keep all your promises
信守你所有的承诺
Be strictly honest, what yousay and what they think you said should match
绝对诚实,你所说的话,与他人对你话语的想象应该相匹配
Talk about things you “will” doonly
只说你“会”去做的事
Be humble
谦卑
Help others be honest and haveintegrity
帮助他人诚实且正直
Make sure impressions you giveare consistent with what you know to be true
确保你给他人的印象与你所知道的事实是一致的
Be constant and dependable
忠实且可靠
⑤Harmonyvs. Divisiveness
⑤和谐 vs. 分裂
Bring people together
撮合人们在一起
Praise others and connectpeople
赞扬他人,并且将他人相互连结
Be happy when people get along
当人们相处愉快时感到开心
Go out of your way to bringothers together all day long
主动出击全天候促进他人和谐
Create harmony wherever you go
无论你去何处,都创造和谐
Avoid thinking maliciouslyabout anyone.
避免对任何人怀有敌意的想法
⑥Sensitiveand Kind speech vs. Harsh Speech
⑥敏感且善意的言语 vs. 刺耳的言语
Speaking in a kindway
以善意的方式说话
Be kind help people feel atease
善意地帮助人们感觉自在
Listen to what others have tosay
倾听他人必须说的话
Honestly compliment others
诚实地称赞他人
Make others feel better withyour words
用你的言语让他人感觉更好
Be very sensitive of othersaround you
对你周围的人非常敏感
Never treat others witharrogance
永不傲慢地对待他人
Avoid rude or hurtful speech.
避免粗鲁或伤害性的言语
The main point here is to use your speech to bring peaceof mind, joy and comfort to other peoples hearts rather than stirring them up.
这里的重点在于用你的言语为他人的心灵带来平静,愉悦以及舒适,而非煽动挑拨他人。
I try to be particularly careful with my speech when Iam tired. It is very helpful to be a meditator. You can stop yourself beforeyou release the words.
当我累的时候,我会尤其尝试去关注自己的言语。成为一名冥想者,对此会非常有帮助。你能够在言语脱口而出之前,及时制止自己。
⑦Wordsof Value vs. Useless Talk
⑦有价值的话语 vs. 无意义的交谈
Share information that willhelp others
分享能够帮助他人的信息
Talk about projects you reallyplan on doing
谈论你会真的计划去做的项目
Do what you say you will do
做你说你会去做的事
Always say something which isof benefit and real meaning to the people around you
总是说对你周围的人有益处和有真正意义的话。
Avoid gossip, useless talkabout sex, politics, people in the news, etc.
避免闲谈、无用的关于性、政治,和新闻人物等的交谈。
Teach and share the wisdom youhave been given
教授以及分享你被给予的智慧
Talking too much about things that have no great meaningis the most common misuse of words. Why bother filling up your mind withuseless bits of information. Wasting other people’s time is a very expensiveseed to be planting in this busy world.
谈论过多没什么重大意义的事物,是最普遍的对言语的滥用。何苦要把这些无用的信息填满你的意识。浪费他人时间,是在这个忙碌的世界里种下的一颗非常昂贵的种子。
The result of thisseed is having a mind that will never stop talking to you. It is a real pain to when you sit down to meditate only to find thatyou have a mind that wants to keep talking. That busy, talkative mind comesprecisely as result of planting seeds of speaking uselessly. Sometimes to putothers at ease we engage in small talk and that is not what I am talking abouthere. It’s the times when you just like to hear yourself talk. You are talkingbecause you want to. You aren’t focused at all on what someone else needs. Ifsomeone is talking to you uselessly then try to listen attentively, try tolearn something and when you can you excuse yourself.
这颗种子的果实,就是拥有一个将会永不停歇一直和你说话的意识。当你坐下来正准备冥想,却发现自己有一个想要一直持续说话的意识,真是极大的痛苦。
那个忙碌、饶舌的意识,正是来自于种下了说无意义言语的种子。
有些时候我们跟人闲谈是为了让他人觉得舒适,这与我在此谈到的是有所不同的。我在谈论的是那些你只想听自己说话的时刻。
你在说话是因为你想要这么做。你完全没有关注他人的需求。如果有人对你说无用的话,那么尝试专注地聆听,试着去学习些什么,然后当你可以的时候你就离开。
⑧Being Happyfor Others vs. Jealousy & Envy
⑧为他人开心 vs. 嫉妒 & 羡慕
Enjoy what you have
享受你所拥有的
Be happy for the goodness ofothers
为他人的善良而开心
Be happy for the success ofothers
为他人的成功而开心
Be happy for the happinessothers have
为他人享有的幸福而开心
Take joy in the success ofeveryone around you
随喜你周围每一个人的成功
Express your thanks on aconstant basis to everyone who supports you
持续不断地对每一个支持你的人表达你的谢意
Stop comparing yourself toothers
停止将自己与他人比较
⑨Empathyand Compassion vs. Ill-Will, Anger & Arrogance
⑨同理心和悲心 vs. 恶意、愤怒 & 傲慢
Listen to the concerns ofothers as if they were your best friend
倾听他人顾虑的事,就如同他们是你最好的朋友
Be compassionate with anyonehaving problems
同情任何有困难的人
Try to help others whenever youcan
在任何你有能力的时刻,尝试去帮助他人
Try to eliminate unhappiness ofevery kind, even for eople you don’t like
试着消除任何人的不快乐,甚至是你不喜欢的人。
Respond with silence orkindness to insults
对侮辱报之以沉默或是善意
Watch your mind for any traceof anger toward another person.
观察你的意识是否对他人有任何一丝一毫的愤怒
Be sensitive about whether whatyou are doing is something that will impact in ahealthy, positive way on yourself and those around you
对你正在做的事情,是否会以一种健康、积极的方式影响你自己以及你周围的人,保持敏感。
Think kind thoughts of others
对他人持有良善的念头
⑩UnderstandingReality vs. Ignorance & Pride
⑩理解现实 vs. 无明 & 傲慢
Spend time each day thinking,peacefully and with focus about what is really important inyour life: whether your priorities are in order, even(Especially) if you knew you were going to die tonight.
花时间每天平静地、专注地思考,在你的生命中什么是真正重要的:你的优先级是否井然有序,甚至(尤其)如果你知道自己今晚就会死亡。
Reflect every few hours aboutwhere you really believe this world, its people and events, couldhave come from.
每过几个小时去反省你真正相信的这个世界中,它的人事物,本来是从何而来的。
Change your own seeds, trainyourself in ethics and in the forceful logic behind integrity, andthen watch the gradual change in your environment
改变你自己的种子,在道德操守,以及正直背后强有力的逻辑方面去培训自己,然后观察你所处环境的逐步改变。
Understand how imprints work tocreate the world around us; then act on this understandingby following the path of personal integrity
理解种子如何运作,来创造出我们周遭的世界;随后通过遵从个人的诚信之道,基于对铭印的理解去采取行动。
Take time to understand that,in terms of content, a positive or desirable result cannot ever come from anegative or unethical cause
花时间去理解,就内容而言,一个正面或满意的结果不可能来自于一个负面或不道德的因。
Listen to the suggestions ofothers, and learn to live without hope of recognition from others; rather, begenerous in giving praise.
聆听他人的建议,并学习不希冀他人的认可而生活;相反,不吝于赞扬他人。
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